When you are in conflict with another, the most important thing to remember in deciding whether to resist or not, is whether this tactic has worked with this same person in the past. If your resisting has not worked in the past, then why try this same tactic again? Just get back to yourself, and work in your own mind, growing a sense of understanding about that person's weaknesses and emotional problems. What you will do is grow an attitude by which you will be less judgmental about others, and just behave with others the way the MOMENT demands.
First of all, you need to fill your body-mind with more and more faith in God and His infinite Grace as the Only Refuge of your life and the perennial source of your happiness in life. If you orient yourself in a way that others would make you happy by fulfilling your expectations, then you are handicapping yourself, for in the long run you will not be able to create happiness for yourself without the good response from your near and dear! Which is quite an uncertainty.
So, pin all your faith and offer all your emotion and love to your Deity, to God, and keep the inner ever filled with the happiness that He is with you and is your Sole Companion who will never deceive you or cause you pain.
Let the focus of your life be the Divine, and in the process keep serving the Divine both in the good and also in the bad, for the world is composed of good and bad, you can not have the world molded to your choice.
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